Selena Blackmore
I became the coach I wish I'd had
Most nights I sat in my car for fifteen minutes before walking into my own house. Engine off. Phone in hand. Pretending to scroll. I did not want to go in. I just wanted, for ten more minutes, not to be anyone.
For 20+ years I was a Senior Global Leader in pharma. I had the role, the salary, the family, the house.
From the outside, I had it all together.
Underneath, I was losing myself.
I was chasing my happiness in everything that distracted me from being me!
I wasn't being the mum, the partner, the leader or the person I wanted to be anymore!
So I became the coach I wish I had when I was going through life, and felt so alone!
That is the woman I work with now.
Who this is for?
You have the career. The title. The life that looks right from the outside. And you are sitting in your car every night before walking through your own front door.
Not falling apart. Just slowly disappearing.
You were chasing your happiness in everything that distracted you from being you.
You have given everything to everyone and along the way stopped giving to yourself.
You might be in a job you are not sure you still want to do.
You might be in a relationship you don't feel seen in.
In a life you created because you thought that is what you needed.
You are not stuck.
You are over-functioning in a life that has quietly moved you away from yourself.
RECLAIM is about finding you again. The real you. The you that makes decisions. The you that takes back her life.
The you that can look in the mirror and say, that's me.
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How RECLAIM works
RECLAIM is not therapy. It is not another leadership framework.
It is real work, in a real body, with someone who has walked the same road.
We work in three places at once:
✔ The body, through embodiment, somatic awareness and energy alignment
✔ The breath, through breathwork that calms the nervous system and reconnects you to yourself in real time
✔ The pattern, through nervous system regulation, identity work, and the interruption of how you have been coping.
You feel like yourself again. Clear. Present. Steady. Real.
Work stops feeling like constant performance.
Life stops feeling like something you’re managing from a distance.
This is how you come back to yourself. So, you can lead, decide and live from truth, not performance.
What changes?
- There is more clarity in how you think.
- More space in how you respond.
- Less internal noise. Less override.
- Work stops feeling like constant pressure.
- Your nervous system calms down.
- You start listening to your body again.
- Decision making becomes easier.
- Life becomes clearer. And a lot more fun!
RECLAIM is not about you becoming a better leader.
RECLAIM is about you becoming YOU again.
WORK WITH ME
RECLAIM Reset
A focused return to yourself when things are no longer working the way they used to.
For women in transition, burnout, or identity disruption.
You may be here if:
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your external success no longer matches internal experience
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you are functioning, but disconnected
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you are questioning how you got here
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you need clarity before your next chapter
What changes:
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Stabilises nervous system patterns under pressure
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reconnects decision-making to internal clarity
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interrupts over-functioning cycles
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creates immediate grounded direction
Includes
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6 x 60–90 min coaching sessions
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2 check-ins
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WhatsApp support
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3-month container
Investment: CHF 1,850
RECLAIM Growth
Deep transformation for sustained leadership change.
For women ready to stop repeating patterns and start leading differently at identity level.
This is for you if:
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you recognise your patterns but cannot fully shift them
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you keep returning to over-performance or self-abandonment
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you want structural internal change, not insight
What changes:
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relational patterns under pressure
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identity-level leadership behaviour
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capacity to hold power without self-loss
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integration of new leadership baseline (not temporary insight)
Includes
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12 x 60–90 min sessions
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4 - 6 check-ins (online)
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WhatsApp / Tel support
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6-month container
Investment: CHF 4,500
RECLAIM Organizational Work
For leadership teams and organisations ready to challenge how they work, communicate, and lead under pressure.
Includes:
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leadership team workshops
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offsites
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keynote speaking
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culture and performance dynamics work
Focus areas:
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trust under pressure
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emotional intelligence in leadership
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relational dynamics in teams
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burnout and performance culture
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presence-based leadership
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Understanding the energy in the room
Key Note Speaking
Selena speaks about leadership, high performance, and the hidden cost of holding it all together.
Her talks are direct, human, and open up conversations that usually stay unspoken
Some examples of signature talks:
Brave Isn’t Ready. Brave is Yes.
On acting before certainty arrives, and what becomes possible when you stop waiting to feel ready.
The Energy in the Room
On presence, impact, and how we shape the spaces we enter — often without saying a word.
Why you need to worry about the person who is always fine!
On hidden burnout in high performers, and why the most capable people are often the most overlooked.